I hate wisteria. I worked as a landscaper on and off for close to 8 years, and while 110° days, dust storms of pollen, mountains of fall leaves, and crabgrass made the days long, few things annoyed me as much as that creeping, indestructible abomination. Sure, it’s pretty and smells nice- for one week out of the year; the rest of the year it takes over gardens, trees, house, yards, and my sanity.
You see, the problem with wisteria is that it has a very hearty root system that seems to store an unlimited amount of energy. As Mr. Rogers is my witness, I have mowed over the same plant 40+ times just to see it pop up again. I even set it on fire once. That wasn’t supposed to help kill the plant; that was for me. No amount of herbicide, cutting, or indeed fire was going to kill this plant if the root system coming underground from the neighboring yard was not dealt with. I asked the neighbor if I could uproot it, and since they wanted it gone, we took it out, and after cutting it back once more, it never returned.
Behavioral interventions are amazing. They work wonders re-mapping neuropathways of the reptilian brain, associating good behavior with dopamine and unwanted behaviors with cortisol and stress. For some students, this is enough to guide them to healthy behaviors, but what about the ones who don’t seem to get it? Why do some behavioral interventions seem to work for some students, but others seem to keep returning to problematic behavior? Why are they doing this? Chances are, we aren’t getting to the root of the problem. We aren’t getting to the automatic thoughts and beliefs causing the behaviors.
Jon Barberio, MA, LPCA
Enter Cognitive Behavioral Theory. This theory suggests that while we can use reinforcement and punishment to modify behavior, a deeper issue is ignored. Its founders suggested that action(A) and consequences(C) are not direct correlations. A does not equal C.
In between A and C is B, the belief about what happened. For example, I had a client this morning who was angry that his boss sent him a video of dirty trim he forgot to clean. He felt that was a passive way to tell him he missed something, and that’s not the way to lead. Now this client came to me angry (the C) because of the video (A), but was ignoring his thoughts and beliefs (B). After helping him see his beliefs, “No one should talk to me like that” and “I’m a failure at work” lead to the anger, he left my office disappointed his boss talked to him like that but not too bothered about a simple mistake that was no determining factor of his self-worth. This is the basis of Cognitive Based Interventions, finding the beliefs about self, others, and the world that determine behavior. Epictetus summed it up well when he said: “Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of things.”
So, how does this approach apply to preventing recidivism in students? Students who regularly get in fights often have a faulty “road map” of beliefs that include thoughts such as: “If I don’t fight back, I’m a wimp,” or “If I let people talk to me like that, I am weak.” A week of suspension (in the environment that built that behavior) isn’t as bad as being a wimp. If we don’t change the “road map” that the student is using to navigate life, they will not reach the destination we desire for them.
Jon Barberio, MA, LPCA
Jon Barberio, MA, LPCA

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Jonathon Barberio
Jon Barberio works with clients to explore their stories and the narratives others have written for them that they no longer wish to own while helping change unhealthy and untrue thoughts and beliefs that lead to negative experiences. He loves teaching families to be curious about the systems they are a part of and how they each affect each other because no one person is “the problem.” Outside of his professional work, he loves reading fiction, playing any competitive sport, playing board games, having thought-provoking conversations by a fire, and would own way too many project cars if he could. Jonathon is a Licensed Professional Counselor Associate with his Bachelors in Psychology and Theology, Masters in Clinical Counseling, and has certifications in rational emotive behavioral therapy, cognitive process therapy, and trauma-focused behavioral therapy.
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